Coming out is one of the hardest and most personally-defining moments in a man or woman's life. It is the time when these people not only accept who they are, but accept who they are regardless of whether or not others do. It takes courage, bravery, and a strong sense of self. Not just this, but it is arguably one of the hardest things a person may ever have to do in a lifetime. Because of this, there are many sites dedicated to making this defining moment a little easier.
Here are some links:
Coming Out Tips - About.com Guide to Gay Life
WikiHow: How to Come Out as Gay or Lesbian
Qnet.org - How Can I Tell My Parents I'm Gay, Lesbian, or Bisexual?
It is important to read about the issue and have a strategy for the confrontation. If a parent or friend reacts badly, it is important to anticipate this so it doesn't slow your stride. These things happen. It will take your family time to adjust to the idea just as it took you time to adjust as well. These websites tell you what to say, what not to say and how to say it. They tell you what to expect, and also how to deal with the unexpected.
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